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  • cartier-bresson
    above all, i craved to seize the whole essence, in the confines of one single photograph, of some situation that was in the process of unrolling itself before my eyes
  • thoreau
    we must walk consciously only part way toward our goal, and then leap in the dark to our success.
  • deep thought
    Okay. The answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything is...42.

June 26, 2008

thursday - quote day - carlin

Images-1 i realize i'm posting infrequently, irregularly, and not about much in particular.  i'm told those are all things bloggers should never do, as well as never apologizing for it.  well, since the good witch of the south and dr. dad are here for a while visiting, this may continue for a bit.  so i thought i'd just tell you now and not have to apologize for it later.  (also, i've been having some technical woes of late, some of which i'm still working on as time allows.  so if i've not returned emails or responded to comments or....any of that sort of thing....please do not take it personally and know that i will get back to you soon.  thanks ever so much for understanding.)


now, on to thursday - quote day.  naturally, it has to be george carlin, doncha think?  so here we go:

-honesty may be the best policy, but it's important to remember that apparently, by elimination, dishonesty is the second-best policy.

-if it's true that our species is alone in the universe, then i'd have to say that the universe aimed rather low and settled for very little.

-some national parks have long waiting lists for camping reservations.  when you have to wait a year to sleep next to a tree, something is wrong.

-think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that.

-scientists announced today that they have discovered a cure for apathy.  however, they claim no one has shown the slightest interest in it.

-some people see the cup as half empty.  some people see the cup as half full.  i see the cup as too large.

all the best!
deb

June 23, 2008

now we're gonna have some fun around here

Images more sad news today.  george carlin, one of our best comedians ever, is gone.  i loved that he loved language so much.  and...well....honestly?  i don't know what to write about him.  i'll miss him.  and the seven words you can't say on television, and dogma, and "you get ON the plane, i'm gettin' IN the plane" and....and...and....at least we can still enjoy those performances for ages to come.


some of us, my friends and i, have had someone else in our thoughts today.  george carlin's former roommate, chandler travis.  chandler, musician extraordinaire who you'll find playing at the beachcomber every sunday on cape cod (or some other places with the chandler travis philharmonic), was once on the tonight show -- which was being guest-hosted that night by george carlin.  

to george's family, friends,  and former roommates (especially chandler) -- our deepest condolences.

oh!  and in case you're wondering, the headline to this post was george's answer to the question asked on every episode of 'the actor's studio'......if heaven exists, what would you like God, if he exists, to say to you on your arrival at the pearly gates.

now they're gonna have some fun up there.

all the best!
deb

eta:  i keep thinking of other stuff!  like....the solution to the homeless problem in america -- use all the real estate available, like the golf courses!  and....why is other people's stuff sh*t and your sh*t is stuff (he was great talking about materialism, eh?)  and talking about mob mentality.  one person is okay.  but one person with another person changes.  throw a third person in there and suddenly it's all 'i don't like bob when he's with linda'.....and so on and so on.  

he gave us great, thoughtful commentary on our society....disguised as comedy.

June 20, 2008

thursday - quote day - russert

sure.  it's a little late, but here we go:


the primary responsibility of the media is accountability of government, whether it's about lying under oath, which upset Democrats, or the mismanagement of responding to a hurricane, which happens to upset Republicans.”

 Tim Russert 

“to suggest that we need several hundred thousand troops there after military operations cease, after the conflict ends, I don't think is accurate. I think that's an overstatement.”

 Tim Russert 

“If your analysis is not correct, and we're not treated as liberators but as conquerors, and the Iraqis begin to resist, particularly in Baghdad, do you think the American people are prepared for a long, costly, and bloody battle with significant American casualties?”

 Tim Russert 

(by the way....BEST....QUESTION....EVER!!)

And then this....what better testament to Tim Russert's memory could be given than this?  I heard stories of Luke giving comfort to others....other journalists mostly....and nothing spoke more than the picture of him touching that chair.....

Mostly?  I think we should all aspire to half of what we've heard about Russert in the past few days.  And I think his best testament.....is his son.....

June 18, 2008

KG interview

as promised:


anything is possible!!!! (17 on the 17th)

Images yes, folks!  the celtics won it.  and they won it beautifully.  they were stunning.  and yet, my two favorite moments were "off the court."  


1)  at halftime, the commentator was asking pierce how they managed to come out with such fervor after the come-from-behind victory of l.a. in the last game.  he looked at her like she'd lost her mind and just said, "it's the finals!!!"  (classic.  like.  duh.  that's what pros do, yeah?)

2)  KG screaming "anything is possible" and clearly overcome with emotion after the game.  (trust me, if i find it on you tube, it'll be up here tomorrow.)

after the game, accepting the MVP award, pierce told fans they'd had some bad years and then thanked the fans for hanging in there with them.  well, ya know?  that's what boston fans do.  they're good at it.  i can remember when the patriots were the worst in the league for years.  the red sox waited 86 years for a world series.  and the celtics went 22 years between championships.  boston fans hang in there.  we believe.  year after year.  we believe *this* is the year.

and what a year!
a world series championship, a perfect regular season (ahem), and an NBA championship.  
the last time they won, i was a senior in high school.  (no "age" addition or comments, please!  ha)....and people around here don't seem to mind the celtics win, as they're all larry bird fans.....and will be til they die.

congrats to the celtics!!
now where do i order my shirt?
;-)

all the best!
deb

June 17, 2008

latest shoot

Strahle-21BW for those who are interested, the latest shoot can be found here

all the best!
deb

June 16, 2008

leadership qualities: empathy

taking in some of the coverage of the passing of tim russert this past weekend, i was struck by many things.  at one point, someone mentioned that russert had said that now that the primary season was over, the next thing we should be doing is looking at leadership qualities, looking to history to show us examples of good leadership, and talking about how those qualities with reference to obama and mccain.


i kind of like that idea.

so here we go.


"no enterprise can exist for itself alone. it ministers to some great need, it performs some great service, not for itself, but for others; or failing therein it ceases to be profitable and ceases to exist." ~  President calvin coolidge

ask someone to list what they think important qualities of a leader are.  go ahead.  take a minute.  i'll wait.  i'm guessing words like passion, vision, determination or even 'someone who gets things done' were listed.  perhaps 'a good communicator' made this list.  was empathy even mentioned?  if it was, how far down the list was it?

empathy can be defined as:  identification with and understanding of another's situation, feelings, and motives.  to put it another way, it is the ability to project yourself onto someone else's situation or position.  to be able to "feel their pain," as bill clinton used to say.  are our leaders able to do that?  are they doing that? 

in the work world, this means that senior management truly understands the impact that gas costing $4.05-4.19 a gallon has for the people commuting a half an hour or more just to make $8.50-10.00 an hour.  does your senior management understand what the lower levels of their organization is going through?  what they worry about?  what truly impacts them?  

it also means that as a leader, you're committed to what deming said:
"the most valuable "currency" of any organization is the initiative and creativity of its members. every leader has the solemn moral responsibility to develop these to the maximum in all his people. this is the leader's highest priority." ~ w. edwards deming in principle centered leadership.

do your leaders know that they cannot possibly develop their employees without caring about them?  and employees know the difference between a boss who says "good job" because it's expected and they think it makes them look good to those higher up, and a boss who truly cares about them, knows what's going on with them, and helps bring them along.

what about congress?  i remember being struck watching a discussion in congress about healthcare.  i was in the middle of negotiating our benefits renewals.  and there stood john kerry talking about the people's struggle for healthcare in this country.  now, i'm sure senator kerry has done his research.  and i'm sure he understands this problem on a certain level.  but as i watched, i couldn't help but wonder if someone like john kerry, with a great health care program and access to the best doctors in boston or around the country on a whim, truly knew anyone and could truly empathize with someone who didn't have it and couldn't afford it.  (he may be a bad example.  because maybe he does.  but that's just what i thought while watching him.)

believe me, boston, the blue states, the washington d.c. bubble?
things look completely different from the midwest.  
in the same way, as one gains power and rises to the top of an organization, their world-view changes.  their view looks completely different from the $8.50 an hour view.  it takes a certain dedication to develop this quality in order to hang on to it as we move up through the ranks.

how does your leadership team in organization stack up?
how do obama and mccain?
how do you?

all the best!
deb




look! an interview with HR wench!

totally consumed has posted an interview with HR wench!  (i didn't know you and laurie were going to blog her together in july!  i'm so totally jealous!)

;-)

all the best!
deb

June 13, 2008

tim russert

Images wow.  i've heard tom brokaw's voice crack, james carville sound shocked and saddened, and on cnn tim russert's friends and co-journalists are saying the types of things one would hope is said about them when it's their time.  58 is definitely too young, but it sounds like he made the best of the time he had here and influenced a great many lives in a positive way.


condolences to all those knew who him.
all the best!
deb

June 10, 2008

if i ever leave this world alive

because i need some happiness in light of my recent technological woes......and ranted a bit....i give you one of my favorite songs ever.  (bad sound, sure.  but look it up.  or find "flogging molly" on iTunes.  it's worth it.  trust me. better yet.  go see them live....and have a guinness on me.)

;-)